In the course of my work, one frequent question I get is, "When will I have a baby?". This is not the toughest of all questions, yet many married couples face this challenge: difficulty in conceiving.
Let me share my humble opinion why conception has become a challenge.
We have heard from the media and the grapevine that work stress, age, time and medical issues are major factors that challenge conception. However, these may not be the reasons at times.
First, a right mindset is key in conceiving. There are many people who say they want a child but, really, in their mind and heart, are they really game for one? They may not be fully ready. There might be a part in them that does not wish for a child. It could be financial burden, long-life commitment, or even routine care-giving that puts them off. Such a mindset builds a wall around conception and makes it difficult to materialise. Remember how we manifest a thought or an idea. Yes, this negativity delays or hinders conception. If you know anyone who thinks this way, please help him/her cancel the negative thoughts. To bring about a conception, it is holistic. In some instances, the child was ready for conception. However, the couple was not ready and the child could not be presented to them. It takes two hands to clap.
Second, this involves karma. Karma could be accumulated from this life time or the previous lifetime. When words or thoughts were, at one time, unwholesome towards another being or a child, especially regarding conception, we accumulate karmic debts that we may be asked to pay this lifetime. This might involve a difficult period towards conception. One way to resolve this is, to do good deeds. It sounds cliche. But, seriously, doing a good deed is one of the best ways to reduce karmic debts. (That was the final statement my late grandaunt communicated to me via telepathy.)
Third, I have seen a client who had made a vow in her previous lifetime not to have children in order to devote her time to religious pursuits. This has resulted her in having difficulties conceiving this lifetime. All she needs to do is, cancel her previous vow. I am not sure whether she has committed to cancelling her vow. She has been asking me when she would conceive. If she could put her time and effort in making sure she cancel her vow and manifest a child, she would probably conceive one sooner than she thought.
The list of reasons is certainly long. But whatever the reasons, having a right mindset and doing good deeds should clear the heaps of conception issues for many.
In violet love and joy,